Neha and the Real Boy
If you’ve seen Lars and the Real Girl, you will probably understand the simile I am going to lay out in this blog post. If not, I’ll try to make it so you get it as well [but there may be some spoilers].
In the film, Lars Lindstrom (Ryan Gosling) finds himself with a Real Doll, but treats her as if she is in fact a living, breathing human being. According to Lars, she is Brazilian-handicapped-community service aficionado named Bianca. Lars clearly is very lonely and suffering from some very genuine feelings misplacement. He has a loving brother and sister-in-law, but he lacks true intimacy in his life.
Lars may have some creepy attributes, but he displays such a common human condition; the desire to be wanted, and furthermore, needed by someone. Bianca is in a wheelchair and needs to be taken care of, catered to. This, in turn, is what Lars needs.
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